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Funeral Directors Miami, FL - How to Choose the Right Funeral Director in Miami

Planning a funeral is never easy. It’s an emotional time, and making decisions can feel overwhelming. Choosing the right funeral director can make this process smoother and less stressful. There are many funeral directors in Miami, FL to choose but finding the one that fits your needs is the key. In this article, we will explore simple ways that can help you pick the right funeral director in Miami, FL.

1. Look for Experience: Experience matters. A good funeral director knows how to handle everything, from paperwork to emotional support. Ask how long they’ve been in the business. Experienced funeral directors in Miami, FL, will understand the unique needs of families and guide you through every step.

2. Check Their Services: Not all funeral directors offer the same services. Some focus on traditional burials, while others specialize in cremation or eco-friendly options. Make a list of what you need, like transportation, viewing arrangements, or help with permits. Once you know your needs, check if the funeral director offers those services.

3. Ask about Costs: Funerals can be expensive, so it's important to understand the costs upfront. A trustworthy funeral director will give you a clear breakdown of prices. Don’t be afraid to ask questions like:

Are there any hidden fees?

What’s included in the package?

Can I customize the services?

The right funeral director in Miami, FL, will be transparent about costs and help you stay within your budget.

4. Read Reviews and Get Recommendations: Online reviews can be helpful. Look for feedback from families who have used their services. Were they professional? Were they kind and supportive? Also, ask friends or family members if they can recommend a funeral director in Miami, FL. Personal recommendations often lead to the best choices.

5. Visit the Funeral Home: If possible, visit the funeral home. It gives you a sense of their facilities and how they treat families. Is the space clean and welcoming? Do the staff members seem caring and attentive? A visit can tell you a lot about their professionalism.

6. Consider Cultural and Religious Needs: Miami is a culturally diverse city, and funeral customs vary. If your family has specific traditions or religious needs, ensure the funeral director understands and respects them. Ask if they’ve worked with similar requests before.

7. Look for Compassion and Communication: A funeral director should be more than a service provider—they should be a source of comfort. Pay attention to how they communicate. Are they patient? Do they listen to your concerns? The right funeral director in Miami, FL, will treat you with empathy and respect.

8. Check Their Availability: Funerals often need to be arranged quickly. Make sure the funeral director is available when you need them. Ask about their response times and how to reach them during emergencies.

9. Trust Your Instincts: Sometimes, it all comes down to how you feel. If a funeral director makes you feel comfortable and supported, they might be the right choice. Trust your instincts when making this important decision.

10. Don’t Rush the Decision: While time is often limited, try not to rush. Take a moment to review your options and choose a funeral director who aligns with your family’s needs.

Final Thoughts

Finding the right funeral director in Miami, FL, can make a difficult time a little easier. Look for someone experienced, compassionate, and transparent. Ask questions, visit their facilities, and take your time to decide. Remember, the right funeral director is there to guide you with care and respect. They’ll help you honor your loved one in the best way possible.

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Dec. 11, 2019: Obituaries

Hubert Church  66

Mr. Hubert Ray Church age 66 of Purlear, passed away, Friday, December 6, 2019 at his home.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 PM, Thursday, December 12, 2019 at Yellow Hill Baptist Church with Rev. Sherrill Welborn, Rev. Kenny Newberry and Pastor Brady Hayworth officiating. Burial will be in the church cemetery. The family will receive friends from 6:00 until 8:00 Wednesday evening at Reins Sturdivant Funeral Home.

Mr. Church was born September 1, 1953 in Wilkes County to Paige and Agnas Fletcher Church. He was a retired Truck Driver for DOT and a member of Yellow Hill Baptist Church. Hurbert loved to make people laugh.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by brother; Ronnie Church.

Mr. Church is survived by his wife; Joan Rhymer Church of the home, a daughter; Patricia Church of Deep Gap, a son; Darin Church of Deep Gap, two grandchildren; Tyler Church and Samantha Church, a sister; Linda Steelman and husband Eddie of Deep Gap and a brother: Bruce Church and wife LouAnn of Deep Gap.

Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to Yellow Hill Baptist Church Cemetery Fund 5160 Summitt Road Purlear, NC 28665 or Medi Home Hospice PO Box 421 Jefferson, NC 28620.

  Marilyn Hunter, 74

Marilyn Francis Key Hunter, age 74, of North Wilkesboro, passed away Friday, December 6, 2019 at Wake Forest Baptist Health-Wilkes Regional. Ms. Hunter was born December 5, 1945 in Wilkes County to Vernon Edward and E. Faye Elledge Key. Ms. Hunter was a member of Bethel Baptist Church in the Mtn. View Community. She was of the Baptist Faith, attended His Light Ministries and enjoyed services at Villages of Wilkes. Marilyn was a loving, sweet and kind person. She loved animals, cats and dogs. She enjoyed watching birds, especially hummingbirds when they were eating. Ms. Hunter was preceded in death by her parents; infant sister, Barbara Jean Key, sister, Arlene Key Niston, Margaret Ann Byrd; brother, Kenneth David Key; brother-in-law's, John Willard Niston, Ronnie J. Pruitt; and nephews, Russell Hawkins and Daniel Byrd.

Surviving are her brother, Vaughn Key and spouse Incha of North Wilkesboro; sisters, Irene Blevins and spouse Hubert of Wilkesboro, Janice Hawkins and spouse Steve of Hays, Rita Pruitt of North Wilkesboro; many loving nieces and nephews.

Funeral service was December 9,   at Miller Funeral Chapel with Rev. Darrell Poole and Rev. Michael Brinegar officiating. Burial  followed in Scenic Memorial Gardens.  

Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to Humane Society of Wilkes, PO 306, North Wilkesboro, NC 28659.

Miller Funeral Service is in charge of the arrangements.

   Margaret Richardson, 73

Margaret Porter Richardson, age 73, of Wilkesboro, passed away peacefully into the arms of the Lord, on Friday, December 6, 2019 at her home. Margaret was born November 26, 1946 in Wilkes County to Granville and Lillian Dowell Porter. She worked at Villages of Wilkes for the past 11 years. She loved her residents very much. She loved taking them out to eat, painting fingernails and helping in any way she could to bring joy to their lives. Margaret loved fishing, she made many friends on the fishing pier in Myrtle Beach, where we are sure she will be missed by all who knew her. Margaret also loved working along side her husband, Jim in the garden. Mrs. Richardson was preceded in death by her parents; and husband who died in 1987, Gary Lee Billings.

Surviving are her loving husband, James (Jim) Richardson; sons, Russell Billings and spouse Pam of Traphill, David Billings and Michele Riddle of Purlear; sisters, Reba Johnson and spouse Claude of North Wilkesboro, Nancy Reavis and spouse Jerry of Rock Creek, Betty Ferguson and spouse Wayne of North Wilkesboro; grandsons, Justin Billings and Russell Billings.

Funeral service was December 8,   at Davis Memorial Baptist Church with Rev. Hadley Triplett officiating. Burial   followed in Mountlawn Memorial Park.   Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to Wilkes South Gideons, PO  Box 323, Wilkesboro, NC 28697. Miller Funeral Service is in charge of the arrangements.  

The family would like to thank Mountain Valley Hospice, all the family and friends that came by with food and hugs.

  Anne Kite, 102

Mrs. Anne Dulce Goode Kite, age 102 of Millers Creek, passed away Thursday, December 5, 2019 at her home.

Memorial services will be held 11:00 am Thursday, December 12, 2019 at North Wilkesboro Presbyterian Church with Rev. R.C. Griffin and Rev. Steve Snipes  officiating. A reception will follow in the church fellowship hall. Private family burial services will be held.

Mrs. Kite was born May 14, 1917 in Martinsville, VA, to the late John Letcher Goode and Lucy Davis Goode Draper. She was a member of North Wilkesboro Presbyterian Church and Vanguard Class. She had been the keeper of the Cradle Roll for over 25 years. Mrs. Kite was a charter member of Wilkes Regional Hospital Auxiliary and also a member of the Friday Book Club. She loved the Blue Ridge Parkway, butterflies and welcoming guests to the Dodge House Restaurant. She was a great cook and well known for her pies.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband: Robert Francis Kite, two brothers: Ray Goode and John L. Goode and a son in law: David Eller.

She is survived by two daughters: Susan Kite Eller of Greenville, SC and Betsey Kite O'Neill and husband Jack of Virginia Beach VA, five grandchildren: Cynthia Booke, Mark Eller, Robert Eller, John O'Neill and Kelly Ogle and ten great grandchildren: David and Lauren Booke, Samantha and Sydney Eller, Archie, Trevor, Ben O'Neill, Cameron and Connor Eller and Lucy and Avery Ogle.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the North Wilkesboro Presbyterian Church 804 E Street North Wilkesboro, NC 28659 or a Charity of choice.

Celebrate her life as she would with kindness and grace and loving one another!

   William Grimstead, 65

Mr. William Michael Grimstead, age 65 of Cornelius, passed away Wednesday, December 4, 2019 at his home.

Funeral services were December 10,   at Reins Sturdivant Chapel with Pastor Robert Duncan and Rev. Eddie Tharpe officiating. Burial was in Scenic Memorial Gardens.  Mr. Grimstead was born May 18, 1954 in Boone, North Carolina to Donald Ray and Shirley Payne Grimstead. He was a Longtime Professional Airline Pilot. Mike graduated from Wilkes Central High  School and Florida Institute of Technology Aviation Program. He was a flight instructor, ground instructor. glider pilot, seaplane pilot and corporate pilot.  He retired from American Airlines as an Airline Pilot. Mr. Grimstead was a member of Oakwood's Baptist Church.

He was preceded in death by his parents.

Mr. Grimstead is survived by his wife; Sherree Grimstead and two cousins; Susan Clements and husband James of Bartow, FL and Cindy Hudson and husband Rick of Hickory.

Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to the Donor's Choice.

  Margaret Dotson, 85

Mrs. Margaret Hayes Dotson, age 85 of Wilkes County passed away Wednesday, December 4, 2019 at Memory Care of the Triad.

Funeral services were December 7,   at Reins-Sturdivant Chapel.  Burial was in Lewis Baptist Church Cemetery.  Mrs. Dotson was born July 29, 1934 in Wilkes County to Robert Doughton and Gena Souther Hayes.  She was a care giver for all of her family, an avid reader and loved the outdoors. She retired from Thomasville Furniture in the cabinet department.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

She is survived by two daughters; Wanda Dotson, Dino of Bluffton, SC and Donna Wicker, Bruce of Reidsville, three grandchildren; Courtney Jansen and husband Stephen, Logan Nichols and Hayden Wicker, two great grandchildren;  Porter Jansen and Hadley Jansen, four sisters; Sylvia Boles of Winston-Salem, Joan Dotson of North Wilkesboro, Jane Brooks of Salisbury, Jewel "Judy" Sheppard of Mt. Gilead and six brothers; Edgar Hayes of Swartz Creek, MI, Harley "Sonny" Hayes of Salisbury, Robert "Chick" Hayes of North Wilkesboro, Gerald Hayes of Statesville, David Hayes of North Wilkesboro and Douglas Hayes of North Wilkesboro

Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to Hospice of Greensboro, 1801 Westchester Drive, High Point, NC 27262.

 Stephen Vannoy, 73

Mr. Stephen (Steve) DeLane Vannoy, 73, of Carthage, passed away on Wednesday December 4, 2019 at Moore Regional Hospital.

Steve was born on Monday July 8, 1946 in Rowan County to Swan Aline Vannoy.

Steve is preceded in death by his mother and step father Don Royal.

Steven is survived by daughters, Stephanie Vannoy of Millers Creek, Elizabeth Vannoy of Candar, NC; son, Chal Vannoy and wife, Tammy of Wilkesboro; sister, Faye Royal and husband, Jerry also of Millers Creek; 6 grandchildren, Corey, Hannah Johnson, Clint, Cody Roten, Zylania ,MaFia Green; 3 great grand children, Delacey, Terence Hamilton, Caroline Roten; special niece, Melissa Shoemaker; special great niece, Nicole Huffman,

A graveside service was December 6, at the Vannoy Family Cemetery.  Rev. Steve Faw will be officiating.  

Adams Funeral Home of Wilkes has the honor of serving the Vannoy Family.

   John Caudill, 65

Mr. John "Tom" Thomas Caudill, 65, of Advance passed away Wednesday, December 4, 2019.

He was born in Wilkes County on August 19, 1954, to John Alvin and Libby Walsh Caudill. Tom was a member of Pinedale Christian Church for the past thirty-one years. He received his MBA from Appalachian State University. Tom owned and operated Auto Financial of NC until his retirement. He was an avid train enthusiast, traveler, and enjoyed doing things for other people without their knowledge. Tom was an Eagle Scout and avid outdoorsman. Following in his father's footsteps, he loved to hike and explore the Blue Ridge Mountains. He ran many marathons and achieved his goal of running a sub - three hour race on his last attempt. Tom was Gloria's Superman.

Preceding him in death is his mother and a brother, Alex Caudill. Left to cherish his memory is his loving and skinny wife, Gloria F. Caudill; son, Jonathan Caudill and Tyler of Washington, D.C.; father, John Alvin Caudill and wife Frances of North Wilkesboro; a brother, Charles Caudill of Wilkesboro; and his beloved birds.

A memorial service was held 2:00 PM Saturday, December 7, 2019, at Pinedale Christian Church, officiated by Ministers Bill McKenzie and Matthew Sink.  

 Cynthia Shipton,74

Mrs. Cynthia Reeves Shipton, age 74 of North Wilkesboro passed away Tuesday, December 3, 2019 at Wake Forest Baptist-Wilkes Medical Center.  

Funeral services were December 6,  at Round Mountain Baptist Church with Rev. Roger Jennings and Rev. Mike Reeves officiating.  Burial was in the church cemetery. The family will receive    

Mrs. Shipton was born March 18, 1945 in Wilkes County to Bill and Margie Felts Reeves.  She was a member of Round Mountain Baptist Church.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

She is survived by a son; Jimmy Shipton of Wilkesboro and a brother; Paul Christopher Reeves of Morganton.

Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to Round Mountain Baptist Church, 3228 Airport Road, Hays, NC 28635.  

 Ronald Hamby, 70

Mr. Ronald "Ron" Lee Hamby, age 70 of Purlear passed away Tuesday, December 3, 2019 at his home.

Funeral services were December 5,   at Millers Creek Baptist Church with Rev. Shannon Critcher and Rev. Phillip Boyce officiating. Burial was in Stony Hill Baptist Church Cemetery.  

Mr. Hamby was born January 8, 1949 in Wilkes County to Woodrow Wilson and Vergie Mae Powell Hamby. He was a member of Millers Creek Baptist Church and a member of the Slant 6 Racing Club.

In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by a sister; Diane Hamby.

He is survived by Kay Bare Hamby of the home, three sons; Christopher Dale Hamby and wife Debbie of Liberty, Ronald Eric Hamby and wife Deanna of Orlando, FL and David Lee Hamby and wife Charlene of Palmetto, FL and special daughter-in-law: Tracy Hamby, three grandchildren; Christopher Thomas Hamby, Parker Wilson Hamby, Carley Lynne Hamby and two step-grandchildren; Jaden Hamby and Peyten Hamby, special extended family; Lori Bledsoe, Ivy Bledsoe, Iris Bledsoe, Ginger Hamby, Jacob Hamby, Anna Hamby and Julie Hamby.  

In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Wilkes County Cruisers, PO Box 1461, North Wilkesboro, NC 28659 or Stony Hill Baptist Church Building Fund, PO Box 97, Purlear, NC 28665.

   Lura Grimes, 95

Miss Lura Mae Grimes, age 95 of Wilkesboro, passed away Monday, December 2, 2019 at her home.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 PM Sunday, December 8, 2019, at Rickards Chapel with Rev. Richard Watts, Bishop George Morgan and Rev. Keith D. Knox, Sr. officiating. Burial was in Rickards Chapel Cemetery.  

Miss Grimes was born August 22, 1924 in Wilkes County to Fred Vernon and Ethel Vyra Barber Grimes. She retired as a Telephone Operator with NY Bell (AT&T), having worked from the 1940s until the 1970s. She was a member of Rickards Chapel and the Mother of the church. Lura was an active member of the Roots of Love and was very involved in the Lincoln Heights Community.  She was a local history enthusiast, loved to travel and was just a phenomenal person with a sharp mind as well as the matriarch of her family.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by three sisters; Mary Louise Anderson, Violet Mackay and Vera Jane Grimes, four brothers; Grover Columbus Grimes, Glenn Alvin Grimes, Fred Earl Grimes and Everett Lee Grimes.

She is survived by two sisters; Reba Williams of Queens, NY and Elizabeth W. Hubbard of Buffalo NY and a host of other relatives and friends.

Flowers will be accepted or memorials may be made to Rickards Chapel PO Box 1689 North Wilkesboro, NC 28659.

 Thomas Hampton, 64

Thomas Odell Hampton, age 64, of Roaring River, passed away Monday, December 2, 2019 at Wake Forest Baptist Health-Wilkes Regional. He was born January 29, 1955 in Surry County to Cornelius and Willie Parker Hampton. Mr. Hampton was a member of Mt. Valley Missionary Baptist Church. He was preceded in death by his parents; his wife, Olga Sales Hampton; brothers, William Parker, James Hampton, McNeil Hampton; and sister, Mary Redman.

Surviving are his son, Scott Satterwhite and spouse Barbara of Hudson; daughter, Tina Lineberger and spouse Ruben of Roaring River; siblings, Luthedia Jones, Worth Hampton and spouse Angela all of North Wilkesboro, Sally Scales of Jonesville, Ronnie Hampton, Jennie Wilborn and spouse Timmy, Sylvia Hernandez and spouse Filemon all of Roaring River; grandchildren, Izaiah Carlton, Jaylin Richardson, Dalton Stepps, Dathan Holsclaw, LaShae Holsclaw, Sovereign Satterwhite, Christian Satterwhite, Quincy Lineberger, Keyonta Lineberger several nieces and nephews.

Funeral service was  December 6,  at Mt. Valley Missionary Baptist Church in Roaring River with Rev. Casey Walker, Rev. Calvin Bryant, Bishop Ruben Lineberger and Rev. Ernest Martin officiating. Burial  followed in the Church Cemetery.  Flowers will be accepted. Miller Funeral Service is in charge of the arrangements.

  Gary Hamby 70

Mr. Gary Van Hamby age 70 of Millers Creek, passed away Monday, December 2, 2019.

Funeral services were December 7,  at Calvary Baptist Church with Pastor Mark J. Hall and Pastor Steve Laws officiating. Burial with Military Honors by Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 1142 was in the church cemetery.  

Mr. Hamby was born January 11, 1949 in Wilkes County to Edgar Jones Hamby, Jr and wife Brona Rae Staley Hamby. Gary served in the US Army during the Vietnam Conflict from 69-70, where he reached the rank of E5 Sergeant. He retired from Holly Farms/Tyson Foods as Plant Superintendent with 37 years of service and was the owner of Hamby Auto Broker. He was a member of Calvary Baptist Church. Gary was a devoted Husband, Daddy, (Best Friend) and Pa.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by a brother; Ronnie Hamby.

Mr. Hamby is survived by his wife of 50 plus years; Judy Kay Minton Hamby of the home, a son; Chad Van Hamby and wife Amanda of Wilkesboro, two granddaughters; Ella Grace Hamby and Addison Layne Hamby, three brothers; Rayvon Hamby of Millers Creek, Kevin Hamby and wife Kathy of Millers Creek and Steve Hamby and wife Geraldine of Statesville and "good friend' Larry Dale Ross.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Calvary Baptist Church PO Box 1516 Millers Creek, NC 28651.

 Richard Greene 64

Mr. Richard Edward Greene age 64 of Wilkesboro, passed away in Mt. Airy.

Private family services will be held. Burial will be in the Barnes Family Cemetery in Churchland, North Carolina.

Mr. Greene was born August 22, 1955 in Charlotte, North Carolina to Edward Franklin Greene and Frances Curlee Greene. He was a member of Community Baptist Church.

In addition to his father, he was preceded in death by a sister; Katherine Ann Greene.

He is survived by his mother; Frances Curlee Greene of North Wilkesboro,  a brother; Stephen Greene and wife Vanya of Wilkesboro, a niece; Lindsay Greene of Raleigh and three nephews; Matthew Greene of Sarasota FL, Trevor Greene of Wilkesboro and Trenton Greene of Wilkesboro.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Churchland Baptist Church 7516 North Carolina Hwy 150S Lexington, NC 27295 or to the Donor's Choice.

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Choosing the Best Funeral Home in Westchester, FL: Services and Support for Your Family

Introduction:

Choosing the correct Funeral Home Westchester, FL is a big decision though you will only see them when there’s a death in the family. Apart from delivering important services required to pay tribute to your beloved, it is an establishment that provides comfort to families in mourning. That is why it is important to select a suitable facility out of the available choices. The information that will help any family decide on which funeral home in Westchester to choose will be discussed in this article including the kind of services offered, the cultural issues, and of essence the care that the funeral home shows. Knowledge of these factors makes it easier to decide on this emotional process.

Some Important Factors To Consider For Choosing A Funeral Home In Westchester, FL

Range of Services Offered

The sort of services being offered by the funeral homes in Westchester, FL, is the first thing that you need to look for when you are choosing one. A good funeral parlor should have plans for burial, cremation, non/religious ceremonies, and event planning. Further, check the services that are exclusive and may include personalized funeral services or green burial.

Culture Outlook and Diversity

Westchester is a cosmopolitan society today, therefore it is wise to select a funeral home that accepts the culture and values of a given ethnicity. Families usually prepare their lost one’s burial in compliance with cultural or religious practices they hold. There are always institutions with highly qualified staff specializing in multiethnic traditions, so choose funeral homes that will take care of all stages, starting with rituals and ending with clothing.

Reputation and Reviews

In this case, a look into more info about funeral homes in Westchester is important in trying to understand the quality of care of the funeral homes. Everyday real-life experiences such as the reviews done online the testimonials given out or even recommendations from friends or relatives. A funeral home with word-of-mouth approval is likely to be more truthful and committed to giving proper dignity to the deceased. Furthermore, it also helps to cross-check any membership to any professional body or certification as an extra precaution.

Staff Compassion and Support

To the experience at a funeral home, the attitude of the staff and their availability greatly matter. Search for a team that is compassionate, patient, and concerned. Funeral directors and the funeral establishment’s staff should extend good public courtesy to make the families’ burdens lighter. While consulting, learn how they relate themselves to you and if they are willing to hear and respond to your issues competently.

Facility and Amenities

Recipients must also pay attention to the operating funeral home and its capabilities in terms of their offerings. Comfort and friendliness of the surroundings also have an impact on the families and friends of the deceased. Try to preview areas where more extensive crowd-fitting can take place and areas where only specific family gatherings can be held.

Conclusion:

Selecting the right Funeral Home Westchester, FL would help in paying tribute to the life of your loved one and be of great help to your family in these times. In particular, comparing and contrasting the services offered, recognizing cultural sensitivity and staff care and the available facilities and services of the center will help to make the right choice in favor of the center suitable for your family. More so, a kind and reputable funeral home will be ready and willing to guide and assist one through this difficult time. Such businesses like Bernardo Garcia Funeral Homes are ready to take much care of all the nuances so that families can only face the bitterness and try to expand comfort in their misfortune.

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How to help your grieving friends?

When someone loses their loved ones, it is very hard for them to deal with the situation. So if your friend is dealing with the situation, you have to help them by giving them your support and love. This is your responsibility to be there during that time. In this article, the team at Funeral Home Westchester, FL, has mentioned some tips on how you can help a grieving friend.

Let's read them out carefully:

Let them cry

One of the essential aspects of the grieving process is showing the ability to express their deep feelings or sadness, so allow them to cry if they want. Shows them comfort in the way they feel you understand that crying is a very important part of the grief process.

Maybe it is tempting for you to try to cheer your friend up or tell them not to cry. You don’t need to forget that it is an important part of grief and healing. People are frequently discouraged from crying as a result of the discomfort others feel when they see that much suffering. Consider the tears as an essential component of the healing process.

Be genuine in your communication

It is very crucial when you support someone in their low time. Be specific in your communication. Never try to minimize their loss or give those simplistic solutions, or unwanted advice. It can be a great choice if you choose to be quiet and simply say yes to everything. Most of the time, we are not sure what to say, but we want to show that you care about them.

Offer specific help

It is very common for someone to experience loss, and you need to help them. "If there is anything you need, I am here for you," is the most commonly used phrase after death. This, however, has the drawback of being just too ambiguous. It's fantastic to offer assistance. However, if the question is left open-ended, the bereaved are forced to ask. Some people may find it challenging to seek assistance, especially if they are already reeling from bereavement.

If you want to help your friend, please ensure that your offer is specific. Your friend might be feeling overwhelmed with grief and not sure how they need you to help. Offering to help doesn’t have to be some grand gesture. Something as simple as taking care of the lawn or picking the kids up from school can help. When you offer to help, consider phrasing it as a suggestion. It is very crucial for you, like "whenever you want, just make a call," "I will be there for you till you want," "be strong; God will make everything fine soon," and many others.

Conclusion

This is the hardest moment or situation to deal with. These are some points that will help you support your friend. Rather than providing emotional support, if you know you need to assist them in finding a better funeral home for the deceased person's final ride or cremation, you should assist them in finding a better funeral home. It will help them not get worried about the service provider's work.

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How to Say Goodbye to Your Loved one Who has Died?

Saying Good Bye to a loved one is a heartbroken moment. It is a very unique experience for every individual. However, sometimes you feel happy that you are with the member during their last ride. It happens many times you will not be available see off or good by them. A funeral home will help you to say goodbye during their last ride. Here is the guide from Funeral Home Westchester, Fl that will help you to know how to say goodbye in an expressing way.

Have a look:

Make an album of memory

Nothing is better than using an image to say goodbye. You can choose an album, poster board, or a photo frame to show your love for them. In which you can include:

·       The happy moment with the person

·       Picture from your loved ones

·       You can sign a song and read a poem to give a tribute

These things will help you to show your relationship with the person. Trust us this means a lot for a person.

Arrange a family gathering to share your stories with the person

Remember that the last ride doesn’t mean you will forget your loved one forever. That may be the best way to show love toward the person and realize that you are going to keep their memory alive. It will only be possible when you arrange a family gathering to share the story with your loved one. It will be the best way to remember them and say goodbye.

Play a tribute song

If your loved one like the music, nothing is better than it. You can give a tribute by singing a song. You can perform their favorite song as a memory of the moments you share with them. If you want to compose an original song dedicated to their memory. It could be a loving and caring gesture towards your loved one.

Create a memorial

You can raise money or volunteer from the person who is connected with the person. Then you can donate the money to your loved one’s name or make a memorial in the park or any crowded place after the permission. That will set a benchmark for all the people who lost their loved ones. They will also consider that way to remember their loved ones.

Write a goodbye letter

When you lose your loved one, millions of thought comes into mind. It will be a nice idea to write all the thoughts on paper or make a goodbye letter for them. It will show a loving gesture towards them and help you to express your emotion towards them. This is the best way for those who don’t talk very much about their feeling maybe they write well. You can read the letter during the cremation it will inspire the people. Yes, you can laugh while reading their funny activity.

Final word

The list does not end here; there is tons of way to memorize your loved one. Funeral Home Westchester, Fl always suggests you take the professional services to do everything in a better way.

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Millennial Funeral Trends You Should Know About

Millennials are the most prominent working demography in the USA now and businesses have started to change their way of doing business to cater to the needs of this generation. If you are a funeral home Westchester, FL owner, then you have to learn about the trends that millennials are bringing to the funeral industry. Below are some of these trends that you need to adapt to.

 They arrange their own funeral

Much of the reason that funerals cost too much nowadays is that a funeral isn’t something you plan for. So, everything has to be decided at the moment and that pushes up the cost. But millennials who have faced more challenges economically than other generations have learned how to overcome that. They are preparing for their own funeral way ahead so that it doesn’t become a burden for their children when they pass away. They are opting for burial insurance to take care of the money, purchasing their burial plot and even making their own casket from things they cherished during their lifetime or opting for cremation and selecting their urn beforehand. They also are making wills detailing how they want their funeral to be, from how to hold the funeral rites to what songs are to be played.  One of the reasons why they do it is that unlike the generation before, they are not afraid of death. Hence they don’t find it morbid to talk to a funeral director or a funeral home regarding what will happen when they are dead.

 They are more eco-friendly

Being eco-friendly and leaving the least possible carbon footprint is the mantra for the millennials. So, it is no wonder that cremation which is way greener than any other type of funeral is gaining popularity. Not only are they opting for that, but they are also looking for ways to give back to society even after their death. So, they are choosing funeral homes that give back to the local community or support those funeral companies that offer greener options like burial without steel casket or planting of trees with the ashes of the cremated bodies. They are also more likely to leave a will asking for mourners coming to pay respect to not spend money on flowers but instead donate it or plant trees as signs of respect.

 They are not looking for embalming

Embalming with formaldehyde is something that millennials are most eager to throw out when it comes to funerals. In fact, embalming is not at all preferred by this generation; they see it as an unnecessary funeral step that harms nature and even the people doing it in the long run. So as a funeral home in Winchester, FL, you can either offer alternatives to embalming like refrigeration or using dry ice to keep the body safe or for burial as soon as possible. Then there is cremation which does not embalming or keeping of the body at all.

 So, these are some of the trends started by the millennials that will become the normalized way of doing funeral in coming years. If you want your businesses to be successful then, you need to start looking into them from now.

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How to Plan your Funeral before you Die

It is hard to treat death as a normal phenomenon, but as the days are passing by, people are getting comfortable with it since they are treating it as a part of the life cycle. People are even planning their funeral before their death with the help of funeral directors Westchester, FL since they do not spoil their 'celebration of life' event with other people's ideas and arrangements. Isn't it beautiful to design the ceremony with your ideas and likings before you sign off from this crazy world?

So, this writes up is to let you know how you can plan your funeral before you die. There are a few things you get to remember when you are planning for it:

Choose a location: 

Traditionally funerals occur at funeral homes or any religious place. But when you are planning for your funeral, you can choose places which are out-of-the-box but close to your heart. Burial, Cremation or Donation?

Decide this most crucial thing and let your family and loved ones know what do you want after death? Now burial is more in trend because burial does not affect nature and it is eco-friendly. If you go for the burial, you will contribute as a responsible citizen who takes a crucial step to make this world a little more secure.

If you want to donate your body, then arrange papers and take legal actions beforehand. And body donation is always encouraged since very few people go for it and this is very crucial for the development of medical sciences. 

Find out a Funeral director:

Funeral directors of Westchester, FL play an active role in executing the whole funeral service procedure and they carry forward all the formalities involved in producing very crucial death certificates too. So, find out a funeral director who is reliable and responsible enough to make all your wishes come true after your demise.  Leading your service:

If you want to have a religious service, then the religious leaders at the funeral homes will carry forward the service process. But if you have a wish to have someone in particular to take responsibility, you can mention it. Make the list of guests:

This one is crucial too because the people who will attend your funeral must be close to your heart. So, you should make a list of people and hand them over to your loved ones or family so that they can call them after your demise. 

Select a theme: 

Make the memorial service more meaningful by deciding on a theme related to you and your passion. Arranging a funeral service on a theme basis will not only beautify the arrangement but also it will be meaningful to you and your loved ones too. If you area music person or a family devotee, and even a charitable person, decide on a theme as per that. Let the people talk about that perspective mostly.  Select readings and songs: 

You can select the type of readings and songs you like and you want them to be read out or sung in the funeral service.                                                                    

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4 Tips on Dealing with Unexpected Death

Death in a family is always a sad affair; and it becomes more so when it is an unexpected death. When someone dies unexpectedly, his or her family members, friends and relatives are left with a vacuum and most of the time, they struggle to accept the fact that their loved one is no more in their life. Dealing with such sadness is hard, and on top of them they have to talk with the funeral directors Miami, FL for funeral arrangement, console others and tackle other issues. So, if you or anyone you know is going through such a difficult situation, here are some tips on how to handle grief arising from an unexpected death.

 Take help from others

Feeling grief over passing of a loved one is nothing to be ashamed of; it is a very natural emotion. And it is hard to do by oneself, so don’t hesitate to take help from others. Talk to your family, talk to a friend and your grief will be lessened by a little. But sometimes that may not be enough, especially if your thoughts turn darker to self-harm. In that case, it is very important that you see professional help.

 Expect Delayed Reaction

Not everyone grieves the same way. Some react instantly while others are numbed. So, it may be days after the passing of your beloved one that you can truly mourn him and that is fine. Don’t force yourself to feel sad just to show the world that you are sad at this unexpected death. Just make sure you are ready when that emotion finally hits you. As it is known, grief has five stages and the first one is denial. At that stage, you may even believe that the person did not pass away and you can continue your life like before.

 Embrace the grieving process

Each culture and society have its own way of dealing with death; in some culture, it is acceptable to lament loudly for the deceased person while in some, while in some tradition, beating of chest, tearing of clothes is frowned upon. So, depending on where you are from, embrace the grieving process. That way you will be better prepared to deal with the unexpected death overnight and the more you avoid it, more depressed you will be in coming days. Your religious beliefs can help a lot during such time; so, talk to your pastor or priest and that can help you cope with the grief. Even your funeral directors in Miami, FL can help you out in this regard.

 Don’t act on your impulse of revenge

 If the unexpected death was due to a criminal reason or accident, it is very natural to have the thought of seeking revenge. That is a natural way to cope with grief as we will want to make the person suffer who caused you this mental suffering. But such thoughts or actions will further destabilize your life rather than helping you. If you feel that you can’t get over this feeling and you are seriously thinking or acting ways to get revenge, it is time for you to seek professional help.

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Life is a continuous journey and you want all the activities of your life to be done in a planned manner. Hence we want a proper arrangement for various rituals related to death also. Funeral Home Miami provides all the necessary services and required materials at the time of the funeral.